9 Vacation Conversation Games That Bring Couples Closer Without Getting Boring

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Vacation Conversation Games That Bring Couples Closer Without Getting Boring
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Vacations are the perfect time for couples to reconnect, but long flights or lazy afternoons can sometimes need a little spark. That’s where fun, engaging conversation games come in. They’re lighthearted yet revealing, helping partners learn more about each other, laugh, and deepen their bond—all without diving into anything too heavy or awkward. Whether you’re road-tripping through wine country or lounging on a beach, these nine games will keep things lively and emotionally rich.

1. Two Truths and a Lie

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This classic game lets you play detective and storyteller all at once. Each person shares two truths and one lie about themselves, and the other has to guess which one’s fake. It sounds simple, but it can spark stories you’ve never told each other and bring out hilarious or surprising memories. Whether you’re revealing odd childhood habits or weird work experiences, it’s a chance to be playful and learn something new—ideal for long train rides or cozy cafe breaks.

2. The Dream Trip Draft

Take turns planning your “dream trip,” one pick at a time. One person might claim a mountain cabin in Switzerland, and the other answers with a hidden beach in Mexico. You can only pick once per round—like drafting a team—and you build your fantasy vacation together. It’s competitive in a fun way and gives insights into each other’s travel styles, priorities, and hidden wanderlust. Great for sparking real trip ideas or just daydreaming on the go.

3. 36 Questions to Fall in Love

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Made famous by a psychology experiment and a New York Times article, this set of 36 questions builds intimacy through escalating depth. From “What’s your perfect day?” to “What’s your most treasured memory?”—you ask and answer together. It’s best played when you’ve got time and privacy, maybe during a quiet evening on the balcony or a lazy afternoon in a park. Even if you’ve been together for years, you’ll be surprised by what still surfaces.

4. “Would You Still Love Me If…?”

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This game is silly, hypothetical, and sweet. Ask questions like “Would you still love me if I had to wear a pirate hat every day?” or “If I turned into a raccoon for a week?” It blends absurd humor with playful reassurance. It often ends in laughter and affectionate teasing, and sometimes even sparks deeper discussions about what really matters in a relationship. It’s light-hearted and perfect for road trips or picnic breaks when you want to keep the vibe goofy.

5. Build a Shared Bucket List

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Sit down and list experiences you both want to try in your lifetime—no judgment or practicality filters allowed. From dancing under the Northern Lights to learning to cook Thai food in Bangkok, let it all out. Then discuss which ones overlap, which surprise you, and what you might actually do in the next year. It’s part goal-setting, part dreaming, and all heart. This game brings future adventures into focus and creates a shared vision to look forward to.

6. “What If” Time Travel

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Take turns asking time travel–style “what if” questions. “What if we could go back to any decade—where would we live?” or “What if we met as teenagers—how would we have clicked?” This one’s great for imagination and storytelling and helps couples see how they’d fit into different worlds or versions of themselves. It’s a creative twist that’s less about fact and more about fantasy—and often reveals your values, quirks, and how well you imagine together.

7. “This or That” Lightning Round

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Fast-paced and funny, this game is all about choosing between two quick options: “Beach or mountains?” “Coffee or wine?” “Sunset or sunrise?” Go rapid-fire or slow it down and explain your answers. You can keep it light or go deep depending on your mood. It’s perfect for filling short moments with connection—like waiting for a table or walking to your next sightseeing stop. It’s also an easy way to learn small but sweet preferences you might never think to ask.

8. Travel Would-You-Rather

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Put a wanderlust spin on the classic “Would You Rather” game: “Would you rather get lost in Tokyo or stuck in a Tuscan villa during a storm?” “Would you rather do a food crawl in Vietnam or a hot air balloon in Turkey?” It blends decision-making with travel dreaming and usually leads to surprising stories or travel memories. It’s fun, spontaneous, and lets you peek into each other’s sense of adventure and risk tolerance, all while planning imaginary vacations.

9. One-Word Story

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Take turns telling a story—one word at a time. It starts slow and weird but builds into laughter as you both try to steer the plot, sabotage each other, or find a rhythm. It’s creative and ridiculous, perfect for passing time on a train or late at night when you’re too tired to think hard. You’ll end up with strange tales, inside jokes, and probably a few giggles that echo throughout the trip. It’s not about winning—it’s about making something silly, together.